A Mother Says

A mother says………

From K.G. till graduation,

U were always a kid at heart my son.

From your first kite,

to the college’s  fight.

U were so enthusiastic,

for anything that u felt realistic.

U showed me loads of tantrums in temperament,

but always cared for my every sentiment.

U were always disorganized,

but  please try to be somewhat synchronized.

Now when u had grown up dear,

and gonna marry sum gal in future near.

I just wanna say,

be responsible and keep your wife gay.

Treat her like  your queen,

give  her all the happiness that one had ever seen.

She will come leaving her own family,

to become only yours for forever solely.

Be trust worthy and honest to her,

don’t let ever suffer.

As you are the apple of my eye,

she is also someone’s cutie pie.

 

Namrta Chauhan

 

Importance of marriage in Indian Culture

 

India is a nation with vast and ancient traditions. The country blossoms with an extensive numbers of colorful culture, languages, communities and tribes. India gives great significance to the tradition of marriage. Indian Marriages are always celebrated with great happiness and enthusiasm. Marriages in India are the most memorable event of one’s life. The Indian culture has never been rigid and that’s why it’s surviving with pride in the modern era. It timely imbibes the qualities of various other cultures and comes out as a contemporary and acceptable tradition. That is what unique about the Indian culture..it moves on with the time
Indian marriages are performed with great purity and making couple to learn the true meanings of being together. Marriage is also the only relationship, which connects the married couple for the life time. The most important thing in one’s life is to marry at right age, with the right person.
The most difficult task is to find the right person to marry and Indian people spend large amount of time for the matrimonial search. Nowadays love marriages have made easy for the parents to search an online matrimonial site. As now boys and girls find their own life partners and parents are left with the task of showering their love and blessings on their children for their happy married life. In India new concept of love marriage is introduced. It has brought a new revolutionary change in the thought process of the Indians. Now Indian marriages are of more effervescent and exaggerated, due to the participation of the young minds. But in case of the arrange marriages, the process remains the same. The matrimonial search for the potential Indian bride and groom has to go a number of phases.
Parents, friends, relatives of the particular bride or groom really have to do a proper research work before forming a grouping with the other family members. There are various different ways for matrimonial search in India. It sometimes, becomes very complicated to find a perfect match for the potential Indian bride or India groom. But with the origination of internet, it has become far easier to search an Indian groom or bride for marriage.
The Indian culture has never been rigid and that’s why it’s surviving with pride in the modern era. It timely imbibes the qualities of various other cultures and comes out as a contemporary and acceptable tradition. That is what unique about the Indian culture..it moves on with the time.

– SANJAY SINGH CHAHAR

The charm of an Indian wedding

“Indian Weddings” We associate it very well with an occasion where people (Guests) or in a simple words “Baraatis” both from the Groom’s side as well as Bride’s side show a lot of Zeal and Enthusiasm. One after the other proper rituals are followed so as to make this auspicious occasion a complete affair without any gap remaining. And in these things how can anyone forget about the Dance, Charm, Band Parties and very recently upcoming DJ Stage been setup near the Stage with amazing lights below our feet so as to make us groom in with loads of Happiness.

Though with the presence of lot of cultures and religion in India, we have seen that the wedding costumes also differ with the kind of people from any religion getting married, but the style of celebrating this event remains the same, in short the goal remains the same.(To enjoy right from the beginning till the End).

For Example, we have seen that before the D-Day (Marriage), a lot of functions are been running in any family. Right from the day the Marriage is fixed, followed by the Engagement day, Mehendi Celebration, Haldi, Dhol Nights till the end i.e. Kanyadaan the joy of the event is never seen to go down.

Truly it is said, India is a land of various cultures and traditions but when it comes to celebrations, all the religions, cultures believe in one thing, “Enjoy and Live the Moment”.

Harsh Golani